Sexualem

Europe

177
Sales
We calculate this number using a recency-weighted average of all ratings, with a rating's value decreasing by half each year to best reflect the current experience. 4.8 (41)
5 years
on Etsy
We calculate this number using a recency-weighted average of all ratings, with a rating's value decreasing by half each year to best reflect the current experience. 4.8 (41)
177
sales
5 years
on Etsy
177
Sales
We calculate this number using a recency-weighted average of all ratings, with a rating's value decreasing by half each year to best reflect the current experience. 4.8 (41)
5 years
on Etsy
We calculate this number using a recency-weighted average of all ratings, with a rating's value decreasing by half each year to best reflect the current experience. 4.8 (41)
177
sales
5 years
on Etsy

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About Sexualem

HM LEATHER HARNESS, BELTS, GARTERS, CUFFS, MASKS ETC

Sales 177
On Etsy since 2021

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Shop about video description

Sexualem — store of unique leather accessories for your sexuality

Shop members

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    Kate

    Owner, Maker

    Your maker and owner :)

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    Denis

    Customer Service

    Feel free to contact me :)

Shop policies

Last updated on Feb 25, 2021

Shipping

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Customs and import taxes

Buyers are responsible for any customs and import taxes that may apply. I'm not responsible for delays due to customs.

Returns & exchanges

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Cancellations

Cancellations: accepted

Request a cancellation: within 12 hours of purchase

More information

Last updated on Dec 17, 2025

Frequently asked questions

Custom and personalized orders

Yes, we do offer personalization of our products, see what the separate listing offers in the dropdown options.

If there are no available options, but you still want a customized product, just contact us to discuss the details. We will be glad to make our products special for you!

Sizing details

We always make our harnesses in accordance with our size chart or your measurements. Every product can be well regulated, so we don't accept returns because of the size problem, only exchange with the client paying for the shipping in both directions.

Wholesale availability

We are happy to offer wholesale rates based on the number of items you are interested in.

How can I track my order?

Once we ship your package, we will submit the tracking number to Etsy. Etsy will then send you an email notification with the included number. With this number, you can track your parcel using any international mail tracking service.

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Can I get my order faster with priority shipping?

We can offer you UPS shipping. It takes about 5 working days and the price is approximately $40-60. If it suits you, contact us with your mailing address, we will check the shipping cost and then create an individual purchase link for you.

How do I take my measurements?

- Measurements need to be done on a naked body.
- Make sure your measuring tape doesn't stretch;
- Keep the tape level around your body - parallel to the floor;
- Keep it close to your skin, but don't squish it down or pull it too tight;
- Measure both wrists, ankles, legs, etc. to ensure accurate measurements. (Sometimes they don't match!)
- Thigh measurements should be taken very precisely. Please measure the stood, not relaxed thigh,tightening a measure tape as much as you will need a thigh cuff to be fixed on your leg, in order to not let it slip off.

What is the difference between eco and natural leather?

Eco-leather is soft, fits the body very well and definitely look great! The natural leather is dense and sturdy, it has a more authentic look and quality feeling.

We highly recommend only natural leather for fetish/BDSM play, because it is dense and doesn't stretch.

Care of products

1. Keep your accessories away from the long-term effect of sunlight, as it causes fading.
2. The best way to keep your harnesses and garters is to hang them up in order to avoid deformation.
3. Try to protect your goods from water contact, especially the trims.
4. Keep your sizeable goods (such as masks, dresses, or belts) away from pressure. Try to keep them in a way that will preserve all the curves and angles in the original form.
5. To make sure your goods look new, don't forget to clean them up with a wet cloth (except for beige leather).
6. Goods such as dresses and skirts should never be stored flat. Hang them up so that they will not lose the shape in which you received them.