May Our Ancestors & Spirit Guides Be With Us At Every Crossroads! 🙏🏾🕯️✨
I could have never expected to be gifted with twins! Before pregnancy, I wouldn't have called myself an athlete, but I was fit enough, could work out and if something needed lifting, I could count on my body to do what needed to be done. After the weight of 13 lbs of babies, added with all the normal swelling and gains of any pregnancy, my body was pushed to limits I had never expected it would (or could). I was exhausted. I was weak. I had a csection, but it was my whole stomach that hurt, it ached if I even laid on my side. And I had a nagging suspicion that the triangle that formed on my stomach when I tried to sit up wasn't normal.
Even though the elders around me that I asked--from my mother, to my doulas, to the OBGYN--all urged me to "wait a year" and have patience with my body's right to heal and retract at the same pace it took to stretch and accommodate the pregnancy, I knew that I couldn't go on in pain just waiting, after I hit 3 months postpartum.
I began to research as much as I could, and was at first dismayed to see the $200+ price tag on modern postpartum wraps. I was therefore relieved when I learned about the ancient indigenous and tribal techniques of binding the womb postpartum, of "closing" a woman after her pregnancy has "opened" her, of bringing an ending note to this amazing chapter in a woman's life that so abruptly seems to end in American culture... I was hooked.
I have ancestry that is 50% indigenous and 50% tribal, but I could not find a woman who claimed to be either of these selling belly binding wraps, despite their distinct cultural past. I then went to the elders in my life, researched some more, and called upon my own inner intuition to make a belly binding wrap that I could use to bring my womb back into place and bring my rectus abdominis back together.
As I wore the wrap and reaped the benefits of better posture, of healing abs, of relieved pressure in the pelvis and womb area as my body regained the ability to hold itself in, and (best of all) my waist became smaller again, I knew I needed to make and share the same wrap with other women. I offer to you, through The Path of a Goddess by Tahtahme, belly binding wraps with your option of Batik, Ankara, or Kente fabric.
I include the waistbeads as a traditional, more accurate way to track your waist training and weight loss. <3 Ase